"Wife, perhaps because of the issues between my parents, I see the distance between men and women as very important. If it's not mine, I must keep my distance. I know you didn't mean anything with Xue Weilin, but he did. Given that, you should clearly maintain your distance from Xue Weilin to avoid hurting both him and yourself. Don't you think?
Maybe you think I'm being too sanctimonious, that it's just my selfishness talking. Yes, I admit, I don't like you being with him. Wife, I know how bad my temperament is, everyone thinks I'm gentle and polite, but in reality, I'm domineering and selfish. Although I admit Xue Weilin has good taste in liking the person I like, I don't like my things being coveted.
